Making Love and Conception

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Some years ago I started asking infertile couples how often they made love. I was surprised at first and then alarmed to discover that more than half of the couples rarely had sex. Many of them only had sex once a month to try and coincide with the timing of her ovulation.

 

Making Love and Babies is a book which will help all couples whose sexual relationship is a chore rather than a vital, loving experience. It will help relationships and self esteem as well as helping those who wish to conceive. It is currently only available as an E-Book.

 

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Synopsis: Making Love & Babies by Dr Judy Ford

Sex is a basic and pleasurable activity that naturally leads to conception. Why is it then that infertile couples have infrequent sex when they desperately want to conceive their own child?

Making Love and Babies explores the history of declining fertility: the pill, abortions, changes in lifestyle and changes in the nature of relationships. It explains why many couples now have infrequent sex and it offers them practical solutions.

 Sex usually declines with age and the length of the relationship. When couples delay having children the sexual fire has often reduced to a simmer.
 Our brain areas for attraction, lust and attachment are in separate compartments. Lust can be reawakened with exercises for whole body sensuality.
 Trust underlies the ability to let go and be truly sexual. Issues leading to loss of trust must be addressed.
 Comfort foods decrease libido. Couples can eat their way to sex or sleep.
 Busy lifestyles often compete with sex. It is exciting to find unconventional times for intimacy that enhance and rekindle sexuality..
 Pleasurable sex leads to greater desire. Women can discover more about themselves and learn to experience more pleasurable female orgasms.
 Sex, like all athletic activities, improves with coaching. Men can develop much greater sexual prowess by doing some simple training exercises. They enjoy sex more and excite their partner to greater heights of passion.
 Research suggests that the timing of his and her orgasm might have a critical impact on the chances of conception. Modern sexual practices may inadvertently reduce the chances of conception. It is easy to learn how to avoid this trap.

Making Love and Babies is full of great advice for couples wishing to conceive and for all couples who just want to improve their relationships, understand each other better, reduce stress, enjoy more great sex.
 

 

 

CONTENTS


INTRODUCTION 8


1. SEX AND FERTILITY 9
Frequency of sex in Infertile Couples 10
Why so little sex? 11
Summary: Sex and Fertility 12


2. FEMALE BODY RHYTHMS AND SEXUALITY 13
Normal female cycles 14
How does a normal cycle translate to female sexuality? 14
What are the basics for a regular cycle? 15
Is it a good idea to time ovulation and sex? 17
Having intercourse at the right time 18
Summary: Female body rhythms and sexuality 19


3. FREQUENCY OF SEX: AGE AND LENGTH OF RELATIONSHIP 20
Sex in young married couples 21
Age and duration of relationship on the frequency of sex 21
Sex around the World 22
3.1 Sex and Age of Woman 23
3.2 Sex and Years of Relationship 23
Age related decrease in Libido 24
3.3 Salivary Testosterone in Men of different Ages 25
Libido is dropping: what can be done? 26
Summary: Frequency of sex: age and length of relationship 27


4. FEMALE LIBIDO – PHYSICAL ISSUES 28
What to believe? 29
“Thinking of England” 29
How to increase lubrication when desire is present 30
Commercial vaginal lubricants kill sperm 30
Foods and Sexual Arousal 31
Lack of Desire 32
Summary: Female libido 32


5. FEMALE LIBIDO, RELATIONSHIPS & MOTHERHOOD 33
Couples as a Team 34
Men and Women: Domestic Roles 35
Motherhood as a role for Women defined by Men 39
Hothouse Mothering 40
Conflict: The Virtues of Motherhood 42
The Conflict of Motherhood and Sexuality 42
Motherhood and Domestic Roles 43
Choosing whether or not to be a full-time Mother 44
Choosing to be Sexual 45
Summary: Female libido, relationships and motherhood 46


6. FEMALE LIBIDO AND TRUST 47
Infertility and lack of Trust 48
What is control? 49
For the person who is emotionally stuck 49
Letting Go of your Inhibitions 51
Summary: Female libido and trust 51


7. SYNCHRONISING LOVE AND LUST 52
Brain areas of love, lust and attachment 53
Synchronous Love and Lust 54
Unfulfilled lust in adolescence 54
Finding lost Lust: Awakening whole Body Sensuality 55
Summary: Synchronising love and lust 57


8. STRESS, FATIGUE, SEXUALITY & FERTILITY 58
8.1 Common symptoms experienced by couples with fertility problems 59
Stress 60
How does stress affect fertility? 61
Secondary effects of stress on libido and sexuality 62
Effects of Stress on Embryo Implantation 63
Reducing the side effects of Stress 64
Summary: Stress, fatigue, sexuality and fertility 65


9. FEMALE ORGASM, SEXUAL POSITIONS, SENSUALITY AND FERTILITY 66
Female Orgasms 67
G-Spot Stimulation 68
Variation in Orgasmic Feelings 69
The importance of feeling comfortable 70
Do female orgasms help conception? 71
Alkaline, ripe, cervical mucus 71
The Timing of His and Her Orgasms 72
Sexual timing and technique 72
Using all your Senses for Arousal and Fun 73
Summary: Female Orgasm, Sexual Positions & Fertility 76


10. MALE ORGASM AND SEXUAL TECHNIQUE 77
The Penis: Size and Shape 78
The Male Intercourse Experience 79
Controlling the Time to Ejaculation 80
After his Ejaculation 82
Frequency of Ejaculation and Sperm Count 83
Summary: Male Orgasm and Male Sexual Technique 84


11. FINDING TIME FOR FREQUENT SEX 85
Why does the Frequency of Sex reduce? 86
Eliminating Time Wasters 86
Cutting back the Hours at Work 88
Managing Shift Work 89
Finding Time together when Schedules don’t align 89
Eliminate Conventional Thinking 90
Excitement and Risk 91
Summary: Finding Time for Frequent Sex 92

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